It finally caught up with me, down for the count. It could actually be allergies and exhaustion from the super bloom too?? It’s so beautiful out, but with the allergy season that’s going to be huge I’m afraid to go outside!
So what have I been up to since I haven’t been able to blog? A whole lot actually. I did head out to Bisbee, AZ for my cousins 84th birthday, so glad I did. This is my mom’s 1st cousin, last surviving of his siblings and always there for me as a kid. Before his wife passed away I thought she sent me Christmas cards, it turns out it was always him. When my kids were little (Frank was a baby) I went out for the 4th of July. I set it all up perfectly, got a mini-van for a rental car and was meeting my mom at Tucson airport.
It started off horribly from the Oakland airport…my husband was running late, so late that he didn’t have time to park and help me with all the strollers, car seats, etc. or I’d miss our flight. He dropped me off at the curb and I ran to make the flight. When we got to Tucson, my mom informed me that she was going to save me a few dollars and cancelled my rental car, that a cousin was coming through to give us a ride. What she didn’t mention was that we were leaving on different days, she had a ride back and I did not. It’s about 100 miles from Tucson to Bisbee, she didn’t tell me until the 4th of July.
I spent the day trying to figure out how to get back to the airport, calling a Sierra Vista rental car place to see how much a drop off fee would be (costing me more than the original mini-van). My mom asked my uncle to drive me back in his truck, which at that time was a 2 seater, which meant my kids would be buckled up in the front and I would be riding in the truck bed with the dogs. She said, “Problem solved.”
My cousin Fred overheard the whole thing, there might have actually been tears involved on my part? He offered to give me a ride in a comfortable car. Not only did he and his wife – who never went anywhere – give me a ride, they stayed with me the whole time and waited for me to board the plane. It was before 9/11, it must have been ’96 when Frank was just a few months old.
He’s saved the day more than once recently, we drove through last year on the way to New Mexico and picked him up for breakfast. I left the dog in his yard, when we got back the dog was gone. Before we left for breakfast, he and my uncle were programming his new cell phone, not going to lie, they were driving me nuts. It took 20 minutes calling each other, making sure each number worked. As I drove around looking for the dog for an hour, Fred calls us and says the dog came to his back door. That 20 minutes of cell phone programming paid off. I just cried and gave him a big hug, relief over the dog plus wondering if I’d ever see him again?
It’s been a rough year for him, very touch & go all year. When I got the invite, my mom let them know we couldn’t go because she couldn’t go. Her travel days might be numbered, especially on airplanes. The more I thought about it, the more I decided to just go on my own and see him again. Every time I go to Bisbee I wonder if it might be my last time too? Always bittersweet.
It poured during the party, that was OK though because the next day was too hot. We spent day 2 all day at Warren ballpark watching the old time baseball tournament with original rules. Someone told me the town of Warren was shaped like a ballpark, that never occurred to me? It’s one of the first U.S. ballparks, a fun day with my cousins. A nice treat was the rental car company didn’t have my normal KIA or Hyundai available, so they gave me a Mustang convertible…fun!!
I’ve been gone almost 2 months now, getting my 6 mos check in for flying in there somewhere. I just took the train back from LA up the coast, using my Amtrak voucher for the disaster delay last time. It was beautiful, I definitely have worn myself out though. Sunday I collapsed and had to cancel everything just to stay in bed at my mom’s. She kept saying how horrible she felt, I just could barely move. We propped me up like “Weekend @ Bernies” to get me on the train where I just stared out the window for way too long. It was cool, don’t think I’ll do it again though.
No trips planned for a little while until I feel better, slowly moving through the week.