Alright universe, walking it is!! I keep trying to do the things I used to do, pretty well I might add, and get nailed by some random fall or something taking me out again. I was on a roll! I swam some laps the other day, was feeling good about taking things slow to build up my endurance, now this :(.
OK, there are worse places to be (and worse injuries) but I was really looking forward to downhill skiing for the first time in about 3 years.
Oh, I should probably mention that it’s just a bruised tailbone – I’m not in traction or anything a few months of advil won’t cure. 3 years ago I did a condo ski lease and was practically living up here to knock “ski bum” off my bucket list. I’d work in the mornings, then hit the slopes after lunch with my season pass. One sport I hadn’t tried was XC skiing, there’s a really nice place up in Tahoe-Donner where I thought I’d go ahead and try it. At first I was like, “This is boring!” The next day I was totally sore and had such a good workout from it, I went all in.
My feet just can’t handle ski boots all day anymore, I did get a ton of skiing in that year with my mid-week passes. It was lonely though without my boys, we used to come up here all the time. At Sugar Bowl I skied one day with this guy who had a house in Bisbee, we were on the lift together and I can’t remember how it came up? But we skied together the rest of the day. Finally my feet were numb and I said I was bouncing out, he followed me to the car.
One of the things he said to me was he was seeing someone who separated from her husband for him, but he really didn’t want that kind of “relationship.” He wanted to be casual, when she left her husband he felt a little choked by the whole thing (I guess it was fine the way it was?). I didn’t pay much attention to his story until he walked me to the car. I gave him a “Heller hug,” which is known to be rather cold. He said, “I want a real hug.” He didn’t get one, I was pissed. Driving off I finally got the moral to the story, he was available for his kind of relationship. Swing & a miss buddy!
It would be one thing if he looked like Aquaman throwing it out there (kidding), I was insulted on a few different levels. The rest of the season I skied alone.
I’ve been on the road for family stuff this Jan, just wanted to escape to my own little place I love to get a few non-stormy ski days in. My warm up was supposed to be XC skiing again with an easy loop, then 2 days at Sugar Bowl. Unfortunately, a pine tree branch I didn’t see until I was right there was about 5′ over the tracks and I tried to avoid it then went back to far on my ski’s and fell on my ass – the branch won. I felt it right away, I’ve done it once before trying to snowboard with a hard fall when the kids were little.
Things could be worse, it just takes skiing out while I’m here. It probably prevented a worse injury? Sometimes I think skiing is an orthopedic surgeon’s dream come true. I stood in a lift line at Northstar once when a snowboarder maneuvered the fence and slammed right into me. I was fine, you just never know what can happen??